Traditional dating patterns
If a young man was interested in a young woman, he would follow the proper protocol of calling upon her, which meant that he would come to the family's home and (hopefully) be welcomed into their parlor.
If he was invited back for subsequent visits, he would be free to come and call upon the young woman during hours specified by her parents.
But with the introduction of dating came an increased desire for romance and love before deciding to commit to marriage.
When people started dating, relationships became less restricted and more personal. In Jodi O'Brien's book, , she writes, "Different institutions were becoming more prominent in the lives of young men and women, such as school, college, and workplaces, which exposed them to a large pool of potential dating partners.In the earlier part of the 20th century, sex and sexuality were not openly discussed.As author Jodi O'Brien put it, "Sex was desexualized" and reserved for marriage, when the couple had entered into a spiritual union with God.Some people look back fondly on dating, generations ago, with romantic ideas of greater morality and better values.Others think that with all of the online apps and matchmaking websites we have today, it's never been easier to play the field.