Song of solomon dating
But then Christians go giving their heart away right and left, over and over again.They enter marriage with a pure body but with a heart that has been used, broken, dirtied, and abused.In remembering back to this time, Shulamith recalls her request of Solomon as they walked and talked: 15 Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom.16 My lover is mine and I am his; he browses among the lilies.
Keeping your heart for the one God has for you is as important as keeping your body!
It means treating others the way you want your future mate to be treated by those he or she is with. I’m getting older and my friends are all meeting people to be with or marry? Abraham and Sarah thought they had to help God out, and result is the Arab-Israeli conflict that lasts today.
It means being the same with the opposite sex as you would be were you married to someone else. To Solomon it seemed impossible to find a pure, down-to-earth country girl.
Since whom you will marry is the most important decision you will ever make (next to salvation), make sure you let God make it for you. While the surface problems vary, the root problem is always the same.
Don’t fall into the Devil’s trap of doing things the world’s way! There is self-centeredness on one or both partner’s part, usually with an unwillingness to admit it and change. Its as old as Solomon and Shulamith (and I’m sure older than that).