Dating when not sexually attracted

The truth is that life lasts for a REALLY, REALLY long time.And yet we base our relationship decisions on evanescent emotions like lust, passion, and chemistry.

He is not ugly but I don’t like his features and overall appearance.

There were no silent moments, no awkward conversation and things really seemed to flow.

I thought "well, it's not love at first sight but there might actually be something here". That was the end of anything good going on in the date. I wanted to jump J's bones right from day one and, well, I still do!

Mia, I can’t answer your question, because NOBODY can answer your question. Which would seem to indicate that you should break up with your boyfriend. I’ve put a lot of thought into the pros and cons of how much you should weigh the lack of physical attraction in a relationship.

Attraction is the big X Factor in any relationship. I urge you to consider this before taking any rash steps. But realize that in 10 years, you’re 37, raising little ones and your life is no longer your own. By 57, you’re probably finishing menopause and his libido is largely gone.